Kyle Goings
Monday, 23 July 2018 / Published in Ideas, Leadership, Teaching, Training

By: Kyle Goings (Student Ministry Pastor of First MB Church in Wichita, KS)

If you are a youth worker in any capacity the time comes when you have to teach them.  Either leading a discussion, doing a devotional, or even giving a full message/sermon.  Giving a full message or sermon can be a difficult skill to learn. So here are some tips I have learned over the years that have dramatically improved my teaching ability.  No one will be able to implement all the tips in one single message but the more you improve your teaching the more impact your messages will make.

With a teen’s attention span today plus the dependence on technology and social media, and add in the bombardment of advertising they receive, the Gospel message tends to get overlooked.  The Message segment seems to have more competition than ever. As youth workers, when you grasp the divine responsibility to preach/teach the Word of God, you become more effective and your youth ministry becomes healthier.

So here are some tips:

1. Pray Through the Process

This sounds like a no-brainer but sometimes we get so involved in the research or writing of the message we forget to be led by the spirit throughout the process.  Prayer forces us to stop and realize that we should only be saying what God wants us to say. Praying also is a good filter to see what should be included and what should be left out.  


2. Know Your “Big Idea”

This may be the most valuable tip on this list.  This is the “bottom line” of your entire message. Summarizing it all down to one memorable statement. What is the one thing you want the audience to remember after your talk?  Also, all sub-points, illustrations, and everything else should reinforce your big idea. In today’s ADD culture this skill set is needed more and more. So if you can’t summarize your talk’s main point, how can you expect the audience to?  It should be simple, memorable, and the lowest level of spiritual maturity a person should understand it. Which means avoid “Christianese” and superficial phrases. Try to come up with your Big Idea early in the process, especially before your first draft (if you write your talks).  The ultimate goal is to build the rest of your message around your Big Idea so having your Big Idea first is crucial.


3. Use as Many Senses As Possible

Everyone has five senses (taste, smell, hearing, sight, touch), try to have the audience members use as many of these senses during your message as possible.  This is easier said than done. But you talking, no matter how good of a storyteller you are, is only using one sense. If you add a PowerPoint or slides you are now using two.  But it’s scientifically proven the more senses you use in learning something, the easier it is to remember it. Quick biology lesson – Different parts of your brain remember different sense impressions.  Such as images are stored in one area of your brain, while sounds in another, etc. So it’s not all stored in the same place. The more areas you have this single message stored in the more impact your message will have on your audience and for a greater period of time.

Here are some ways to use more senses:  

  • Use the “say dog, see dog” principle.  As in, if you are talking about an object they need to see it either in person or on the screen no matter how simple of an object it is.
  • If you are talking about planting seeds like the gospel, have everyone hold a seed in their hand when you talk about it.  
  • Have them write down your main points with a handout.
  • Bring an item in that smells (good or bad) when you talk about that item.  (food is really easy to do with this)
  • Make motions to your main scripture verse and force them to do them every time you bring it up.


4. Have a Strong Hook (intro.)

Jesus was known for his parables and storytelling, He hooked you right away before you even knew what he was talking about.  Your introduction should be short, interesting, and evokes curiosity. A good introduction builds trust with the audience and eases them into your main point.  If you go straight to the scripture passage with no context (which you can) and go “too deep too soon” you might lose them if they are not spiritually ready for such a thing.  Jesus told stories because everyone can relate to a story, even if they don’t agree with the main point. Jesus also asked WAY more questions than He ever answered. The ideal situation is you have a strong introduction that leads the audience directly to your Big Idea.

Some good introduction points:

  • Ask a question most people can relate to. “Why is it so hard to forgive a person?’
  • Share a funny story.  Avoid too serious of a story at the beginning that can come later.
  • Introduce the conclusion.  Sounds backward but start with what you are going to ask the audience to do and then give them the reasons why.
  • Set up the main scripture passage by giving its historical background BUT try to have the audience members place them into the setting that you are describing.


5. Application Always

Jesus taught for change.  Either to have us think differently, behave differently, or believe differently.  But Jesus always communicated for change. Application should never just be thrown in at the end of a message but it should be a crucial part of it.  Your Big Idea put into action is the application part. The audience should know what you are challenging them to do, why they should do it, and how they should do it.   Do not separate your Big Idea and the application. Every message should have the application part clearly communicated… always.


6. Practice, then Practice Again

This is easier for some people rather than others.  This requires experience above anything else. Whether you write out every word or just do an outline or “wing it” or  “are led by the spirit”–whatever your method, some kind of practice is needed. Too many times lack of preparation kills a message more than anything else.  This means you need to plan your messages before the afternoon of the same day you give them. A good rule of thumb is by the time you give your message it should be the third or fourth time you have given it, and one of those rehearsals should be at least the day before.  A good idea is to practice it once, sleep on it and see how much you retain the next day. The key isn’t to have it completely memorized (although the less you look at the notes the better) but as Pastor Carey Nieuwhof would say, “Don’t memorize your talk. Understand it.” That means that you know the subject, you know the structure of your talk (intro., teaching, application, conclusion, etc.)


7. Follow the Seven Minute Rule

There is a belief out there that is a complete myth which states “sermons need to be short because people have tiny attention spans.”  The underlying wrong belief is that shorter = more engaging–that is not true. You can be short and boring and you can be long and impactful.  There is no perfect length for messages. I have heard plenty of 45-50 minute messages that I just didn’t want the preacher to end. And I have sat through some terrible 10-minute messages that I thought would never end!  Remember the issue isn’t length, it’s engagement.

So this tip is not about your messages’ length but rather the time you spend on each point of your message.  The key is no point (whether you have 3 or 8 in a message) should be talked about longer than seven minutes without some kind of topic break.  What I mean is, once you have shared your first point, given reasons why, or even use scripture to support it, if you take more than seven minutes to explain your point, than you begin losing your audience.  The average human can only absorb so much information at any one time without some kind of break. So between points share a story, show a video, or the very least switch to a different point or subject! Simply talking about the same point over and over again doesn’t make an impact it actually hurts what you are trying to do.  

I hope these seven teaching tips help you and your ministry.  If you have any more tips, feel free to leave a comment below!   

Kyle Goings
Thursday, 19 July 2018 / Published in Membership, Network, Project:Serve, USMB, Youth Worker Life, YouthCon

That’s right we have an app!  One more way where students and youth workers from USMB Youth workers can connect, find resources, and stay up-to-date with news and events throughout the year.  We know not everyone has the ability to use on their computers, so we decided to provide an app to make it easier.

Android version is now live!  The Apple version is live!  And all for free!

Features include:

  • Access to The Youth Worker Network and all it’s resources
  • The ability to check out our ALL THINGS YOUTH BLOG right from your phone
  • The ability to have students sign up for Project:Serve and get all the information to start a ministry in their community
  • Information all about YouthCon that will be a vital part of the National Youth Convention (more to come from this)

Right now the app is mainly for youth workers.  However, starting with YouthCon next April we will be using this app as the main source of communication.  It will take the place of our normal booklet (we will still have a smaller version).  This means you will find the schedule, map, special deals, speaker information, note taking ability, and even games all through the YouthCon section of the app!  So stay tuned.

Right now until August 25th anyone who downloads the app and posts (Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram) a screenshot of the app using #USMBYouthapp will be entered into a drawing for a $25 gift card to Best Buy!

Kyle Goings
Friday, 25 May 2018 / Published in The Top 5, YouthCon


(The Top 5 is our quick list of resources, recommendations, or reasons that we feel you should know).

Previous YouthCon’s were in an Urban setting, usually at a hotel or convention center.  After much prayer and discussion, the planning team decided to go in a different direction.  Here’s why…

ONE – A new vision was given to the planning to expand our scope of ministry.  One of the biggest goals was we wanted to be connected between every four-years-conventions.  So we started a Youth Worker Network, Project:Serve, and repurposed the National Youth Convention to YouthCon.

TWO – A camp setting provides natural connection opportunities over meals.  With an urban setting, everyone was on their own for meals and we saw that as a missed opportunity to foster relationships.  By going to Camp Glorietta all meals are provided which allows for new friendships to develop and it is actually cheaper to include meals in the cost!

THREE – Camp Glorietta has over 40+ fun activities already provided! The 3,500-bed campground is designed for high school students with things like multiple gaga pits, baseball fields, 3 different zip lines, glow in the dark dodgeball arena, mud pit, arrow tag, and more.  No need for a group to come early for a “fun day” because every day will be one at the camp!

FOUR – We wanted to bring the service project to our local communities back home.  One of the biggest reasons was the development of Project:Serve where students can sign up to receive funds and help to meet a need in their local communities.  The community serving day in the urban settings of the past has been a struggle to find quality projects for 1,000 people.  So we decided to put the funds and work to better use.

FIVE – The rising costs for urban locations.  Hotels/convention centers are increasing their prices without any increase of benefits.  Camp Glorietta is actually less expensive with way more benefits.


By: Kyle Goings (Student Ministry Pastor of First MB Church in Wichita)

We are doing something different this year.  Every year we usually take about 20 adult leaders to our summer camps.  A lot of amazing ministry happens during these weeks but it also takes a lot of work and commitment from our adult leaders.  Not only do most of them give up a week off work, they also serve 24/7 while at camp.  It’s a highlight every year for both students and leaders. So this year we wanted to say thank you and show our appreciation to our adult leaders by creating a fun and encouraging Adult Leader’s Camp Survival Kit.

I did some research online and got a few ideas but most of it came from me going to a dollar store and grabbing items I think might be useful, enjoyable, or just fun to symbolize a funny saying.  The purpose is to bring a smile to each leader’s face.  We will give these kits out as the leaders get on the bus for a nice surprise.  Our box costs around $12 per kit, mainly because several items we bought in bulk.

If you want to make your own, the best part is you can include as much or as little as you want!  The key is to personalize it to your group and embrace the corniness of it!  I have also included some items we came up with that we might include next year.  If you know of an item we should add or different saying for one of the items already feel free to leave a comment!

The box I found on Amazon, here, but any bag would work as well.

Included Items:

Granola Bar – An extra bit of nourishment that they will be lacking during the whole week…

Cheez-It – Just when you think that camp wasn’t cheezy enough…

Oreo – For that needed late-night sugar high…

Kleenex – To wipe the tears of those hormonal girls or that one guy…

Band-Aid – For when things get a little rough…

Pen – Because the pen is mightier than the sword and we will not let you use a sword on the students…

Gum – To remind you to stick with it…

Safety Pins – To hold it all together…

Hair Tie – To help you stretch yourself beyond your limits…

Cards – For games to get to know your cabin mates…

Smarties – Because you will need your wits about you…

Hand Sanitizer – To use after prayer circles…

Post-Its – To write some encouragement notes…

Advil – To numb the pain of camp…

Lifesavers – You are a lifesaver and you will need some encourage “mint”…

Sunblock – To protect you from the sun’s hatred…

Ear Plugs – (Self-explanatory)

Rubberband– To remind you to be flexible…

Toothpick – To pick out the good in others…

Laughy Taffy – Because who wouldn’t want a good laugh…

Tootsie roll – To remind you that sometimes you need to roll with it…

Swedish Fish – To remind you to be fishers of men…


Extra Items:

Duct Tape – To help with sticky situations

Bubbles – When you feel ready to pop

Animal cookies – for when your cabin seems like a zoo

Starbursts – to give you a “burst” of energy when you need it…

A string – to tie everything together when everything falls apart

Lollipop – For when life sucks…

Soap – To help wash away your troubles…